Don’t lose yourself trying to find love.
Don’t put your life on pause because of a man/woman.
Zipporah the wife of Moses was busy taking care of her father’s flocks when she met moses, Ruth went to farm in the field when she met Boaz, Rebecca was busy working and feeding her father’s flocks when she met Eliezar that brought her to Isaac..
I have always said this, a good relationship will make you better, develope yourself, be a better version of yourself, a relationship should be a plus not your entirety.
Be you until you meet him/her.